Let me tell you about yesterday, which was Sunday.
I started the day with breakfast in Manhattan Beach. Then I drove down to Irvine to meet Darren. He's been going to Mariners Church for about fifteen months. It's a big operation. Services begin on Saturday night and there are two Sunday morning services that are simulcast from the main sanctuary into a tent structure. Darren and I went to the tent.
Entering the tent is like entering a dance club. It's lit with colored lights - so it's dark. The dark didn't bother me. Actually, I appreciated the sense of quiet that it created. That's unlike the usual brightly lit "buzz" of most Protestant churches. Even though the sermon is via video link, the rest of the service in the tent is live - and VERY loud.
I'm glad that Darren has found Mariners. While I didn't think that an Orange County "Mega Church" would be a natural choice for him, the church has offered opportunities that have served him well. I met a core of his closer friends. It's clear that they care for one another and are current on the details of each other's lives. And he's involved with the high school youth group. The way I see it, the church gives folks a place to be in the fast paced an often anonymity of Southern California.
Actually, on this trip, I've been particularly aware of the traffic and crowds of Southern California. I've been coming here for years but things have changed. When I met Robby in Santa Monica yesterday, I asked myself "What am I getting in to moving into this crowded mess!" But, I'm glad that I'll be coming out here. I'll have to be thoughtful about where I live so that I won't have to commute in the traffic.
After church, I drove up to Santa Monica to hang out with Robby. Robby's one of the first people I met when I got to MIT in 1993. He's been a great friend and I'm glad that we've stayed in touch all these years.
I'm going to spend today doing stuff with my sister. She enjoyed our excursion last Saturday. It'll be fun to spend today together. I'm going back up to Santa Barbara later this afternoon to have an early dinner with some Westmont friends.
As random as this will read, this morning I woke up thinking about a student I met at MIT. I think that I was thinking about loneliness, pain and religion from being at Mariners yesterday and reflecting on the sermon - which I won't write about here.
Here's a summary: One day, in my second year at MIT, a student appeared at the door of my office. Even though someone was meeting with me, he stood at the door and blurted out: "Someone told me that you could talk to me about God." I can't remember who I was in my office. For some reason I think that it was a perspective student visiting the university. I arranged to meet the student who had come to my door later that afternoon.
When I met with the student, he told me what had been going on in his life: He was an immigrant to the US, the first in his family to attend college, and was in his third year as an undergraduate at MIT. However, he was in trouble at the university. He had gained access to places and materials that he shouldn't have been by coming by a master key. He misused his access, got caught and was going through disciplinary action. He was devastated and he felt that his life was a disaster; hence, he was looking for a place to turn. He chose God. Another student in his residence hall had him come talk to me.
To advance the story: the student was expelled, but he kept his housing for the rest the semester since it was paid for. (I don't understand this piece of it, but he was in the dorms.) While he as waiting to figure out his next step, he got involved in a church. So, for a time, God dulled the pain in his life. But that didn't last long. He continued to make poor choices. Choices, I'm now convinced, that were attempts to find something to take away the pain that he lived with.
He was able to transfer to another university, and he graduated from college. I don't know what happened from there, but I thought about him this morning. I guess that blogging allows you to write about random things that might be loosely connected.